Life is all about timing. You miss a train by 5 seconds; you
make a train by 5 seconds. You get to the counter and grab the last chocolate
croissant or someone else grabs it before you can get to it. You get to the
pump before someone locks it up for the morning or you have to hope you have
enough water in your water container to last you another 12 hours. To cite more
examples would be slightly redundant, but you get the point. Timing is
important.
And things that take a while often frustrate people or
otherwise overly inconvenience those same people. When my brother was little he
used to say, “But it takes too long, and you know how I hate that.”
So why do people procrastinate? Some people work better
under pressure. Some people have more pressing needs to deal with (a job, money
making opportunity, a family). Some people are just bad at prioritizing. And,
some people just don’t want to pursue a course of action so they keep putting
it off.
In the United States procrastination is seen as something to
laugh about especially when you’re in college, high school, or something along
those lines.
But sometimes, it’s not funny, and sometimes it can have dire
consequences.
In French the verb durer
means along the lines of “to take a long time”. You can say, “Man, I’ve really
dured here” meaning “I’ve been here for a while”. “That meeting really dured”
(Jeez, that meeting took a while). And while dur-ing isn’t always bad, the
connotation certainly isn’t good.
The other day I was helping out with prenatal consultations
and this pregnant woman comes in because she is having contractions. Gold star-
seriously. Sometimes it’s incredibly difficult to get women to give birth at
the health center because it’s either too far away from their home, they think
it’s too expensive (which is ridiculous because it’s free- the state absorbs the
cost), or something along those lines.
So then when we find out more information such as her
previous birth had been with a c-section and that our midwives had actually
told her to come in a week beforehand so they could discuss plans for giving
birth in Koudougou (because of the danger of Uterine rupture after a C-section
they like to refer women to the hospital for the birth immediately following
the c-section. After that, it’s fine to give birth at the health center).
Alright,
so maybe a silver star at the moment but the woman is at the health center and
that’s what’s important.
Now we have to get this woman to Koudougou quickly. And this
seems like a job for the ambulance. But, ironically enough, the ambulance is
actually in Koudougou picking up our supply of medications for the month of
June. So we call the driver and explain that he should probably hurry back. As
luck would have it, he was only about 10 minutes away so we waited for a bit
and explained that we were going to refer the woman to Koudougou for her own
health. So everything’s good the ambulance shows up we get the door open and…
Where’d the husband go? Apparently he went home to get something.
What he went to get we don’t know but we’re all sitting around waiting for the
husband and finally he shows up…with nothing. So while that was confusing we
finally have the ambulance, pregnant woman, the husband, and their entourage.
Awesome, go time. So we get the pregnant woman in the ambulance and what
happens- she has the baby. Oops. Now it’s truly a debate as to which is more
comfortable the birthing table in the maternity ward or the floor of the
ambulance but there is definitely more room in the former.
As it turns out nothing ruptured and the mother and child
were both fine. But we did speak to the father about how we were lucky and that
he should not have spent as much time doing…whatever he was doing. And he just
smiled at us and said that everything will work out, and we tried to impress
upon him the importance of helping everything to work out.
Later that day all the midwives and I were sitting around
just chatting and one of the midwives said something along the lines of, “People
don’t like to go to Koudougou. So in the end they make up reasons not to go.
They dure at the house, they just continually say no, or they say they don’t have
money (again…for pregnant woman the state absorbs the cost (more or less)). And,
the end result is dangerous”.
I guess now I’ve found another project to occupy my time
here- convincing people about the benefits of care at a hospital and explaining
that there are some things we cannot do here in the village and that you can’t
really put a price on your health.